{"id":399,"date":"2014-12-07T09:00:10","date_gmt":"2014-12-07T07:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thebeadmovement.com\/?p=399"},"modified":"2014-12-07T05:07:40","modified_gmt":"2014-12-07T03:07:40","slug":"mhairis-week-14","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/thebeadmovement.com\/?p=399","title":{"rendered":"Mhairi&#8217;s week 14"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I decided this week to focus on an intention for the whole week. I chose the word LOVE and decided to just simply focus on that word and what it meant. Immediately I was challenged as an hour or so later I sat talking to someone who basically didn\u2019t take a breath, cut me off constantly in conversation and that sort of thing. I could feel myself getting annoyed and wanting to cut her off back but then the word love popped into my head. Everything changed, I simply let her talk. I didn\u2019t try to make my point or anything at all. All I did was do what she needed me to do in that moment was to simply listen to her.<\/p>\n<p>This one intention changed everything. Things began to unfold like magic over the next few days. I guess its what people mean when they bang on about being in the flow. I had left a scarf at a friend\u2019s house, I went over to retrieve it and thought I would do a spot of shopping in a local supermarket. I was literally parking my car in the supermarket parking lot wondering what the reason was that I had left my scarf \u00a0(in my obsession to find meaning and significance in every single event) 5 minutes later I was aimlessly walking darling with a yam in my trolley when I stumbled upon a friend I had just recently sent a message to saying we should meet up. Thus ensued a conversation for 45 minutes over the kitchen rolls during which time my friend had suggested the perfect idea for the poster of my show.<\/p>\n<p>Realized that I had forgotten to get nuts meant another stop at another supermarket. This time 2 women approached me; the first who asked where I was from and who turned out to be an Israeli school teacher and when I said that I had shot a movie about the beginning of Israel she asked me to come in and talk to her students about the experience and introduce the film. The other is a vintage clothes seller and wanted to talk to me about gloves and things.<\/p>\n<p>In a city as large and as sprawling and as generally lonely as Los Angeles these encounters are not to be sniffed at. In 5 years of living here I have literally bumped into someone I know maybe 4 times or so and not often had fully fledged conversations about the middle east over peanuts and mixed almonds.<\/p>\n<p>I got home and tried on a dress my partner on the show had ordered for herself on the internet which when arrived proved to be the wrong size. It fit me like a glove.<\/p>\n<p>I have begun to think of people as books. If I&#8217;m lucky enough I can get to read a little of their story, hear a little of their adventure, their experiences, their conclusions.<\/p>\n<p>Its hard to sometimes remember to focus on the word love to be perfectly honest. I tend to manage it best when I&#8217;m struggling with the person in front of me. So I have yet to really say I\u2019ve conquered total self control over things simply by thinking love, but I have made a start and seen what a difference it can make to your minute and to your precious day.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thebeadmovement.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/photo-99.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-400\" src=\"http:\/\/thebeadmovement.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/photo-99-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"photo-99\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/thebeadmovement.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/photo-99-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/thebeadmovement.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/photo-99.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I decided this week to focus on an intention for the whole week. I chose the word LOVE and decided to just simply focus on that word and what it meant. 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